A Woman’s Guide to Coping With Erectile Dysfunction

A man has been diagnosed with erectile dysfunction, or ED, and this time, it’s your man. It’s a straightforward situation, right? All he needs to do is visit the doctor, buy Viagra, and everything will go back to normal. At least that’s what happens on the commercials. Television fails to illustrate how deep the pain and suffering is for a woman whose man has ED. Consider a few tips to help you get through this challenging time and come out the other side with a stronger relationship than you had before.

First, don’t blame yourself. Women tend to do this and believe that the ED is their fault in some way. Maybe you feel like you’re unattractive or you didn’t do the right things to stimulate him. This is likely to be nowhere near the truth. Almost every man will experience some form of ED at some point in his life. It is caused by stress, depression, or other reasons that aren’t really known. For some men, the problem keeps happening. While ED is a sexual issue, most of the time, its causes lie in other physical conditions like high blood pressure, heart disease, and diabetes.

It’s very important that you don’t start grilling your guy with endless questions. Don’t trying to get him to admit that he’s cheating and that’s why he’s not attracted to you anymore. Any man will see this kind of action as an attack and will retaliate or withdraw, resulting in a vicious cycle that’s very hard to stop. Once this cycle starts, communication ends and the relationship’s demise may not be far behind. The best thing that you can do is listen to your partner and try to understand this disorder for what it is: a medical condition. Be supportive and understand his treatment options. Things will perk up.

School Lunchboxes

I am on the lookout for bento boxes like these for my kids lunchboxes:

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I have a pre-schooler who would most likely just graze on her food so I need to give her options on what she wants to eat. I am actually surprised how expensive this lunchboxes can get – to think they are only a part of the whole package of the things your kid needs to have to go to school. The husband told me that his officemates were applying for payday advance loans already to anticipate the influx of expenses this June.

I saw this cute little thing online and I am wondering why I didn’t have the foresight to order this sooner:

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How about this cute insulated animal lunchboxes?

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Your child will love taking this cute lunch box with them wherever they go.

The lunch box itself is made of PVC making it very easy to fold and store. Cleaning is a breeze also. Just use a damp cloth and wipe clean.

It is very lightweight so it’s easy for your child to handle. There is a shoulder strap or a handhold to make it even easier for your child.

There are six different animal designs. They come in a duck, frog, dog, ladybug, elephant or penguin design. So, if your little one has a special animal they like you will probably find the right one just for them.

My grade 4 son wants to have something that can keep his lunch hot for hours. He also wants the whole deal – rice, soup and viand.

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This is like a stackable bento lunch box if you think about it.

You can buy one here.
It is also great for those first graders who can be a little skeptical about taking their lunch to school. Being able to take an “old friend” like a dog with them will relieve some of the leeriness they can feel.
It is also well insulated to keep things cold. That makes it great for taking snacks and drinks on a long drive or even to Grandma’s house. They are wonderful to take on a picnic too. Your kids will love this lunch box made just for them.

What You Should Have in Your Pantry

I came across a news feature saying that the average single woman living along has one surprising feature in her pantry: instant noodles! How did this happen when women should be able to cook for herself? The answer is the modern career woman you see today, who might even be your boss. They spend so much time at work that when she gets home, the least thing she wants to do is cook for herself and clean up the mess afterwards. Eating would be the farthest thing off her mind when she thinks of chores. So instant-everything food it is! I should know this, because I was like this when I was a student and working full-time. To this day, I really cannot boast of good cooking skills too, but I can sure give you the mechanics of a payday advance loan, show you to do amazing things in Photoshop and give you a very graphic detail on how surgeries are done.

But you should always these in stock, because you never know who will come over (like your Mom!):

1. PASTA
Whether for a family dinner or when you need to serve friends a quick and hearty meal, you can’t go wrong with a pasta dish. It simply is the complete one meal deal! Simply cook the noodles in boiling water for 8 minutes. While waiting for the pasta to cook, chop some celery, onions and carrots. Saute the vegetables in olive oil, pour in a can of diced tomatoes, add a dollop of tomato paste, season well with salt and pepper. Simmer for 20 minutes and there you have a good basic marinara sauce you can use to top your pasta with.

2. CANNED TOMATOES
Canned tomatoes come in different varieties these days: stewed, diced, petite cut. But all these come in handy not just for pasta dishes but for pochero, afritada, and even for rice dishes like arroz con pollo or paella. This saves you time and money, especially when good, ripe fresh tomatoes cannot be found in the market.

3. TUNA

Tuna isn’t just catfood anymore. It certainly has come a long way and now we even have tuna na “lasang corned beef!" Not to mention tuna afritada, tuna paksiw, tuna adobo and the whole line of tuna variants in the supermarket. But really, flaked tuna is one of the most versatile proteins – it can be used in omelets, pasta, or as a healthier substitute to ground chicken and pork in dishes like eggplant relleno and even burgers.

4. OLIVE OIL

While olive oil is more expensive than the regular cooking oil, it is being used more and more by Filipinos in their dishes. It’s known to be healthier than the cooking oil we grew up with. And as we relish doing pasta dishes and salad dressings, a bottle of olive oil is a reliable kitchen mainstay.

5. OYSTER SAUCE
Oyster sauce can elevate the taste of your ordinary guisadong gulay into new gustatory heights. When mixed with sauteed onions and garlic, as little as two tablespoonfuls of oyster sauce and some water, a bit of sugar, and cornstarch slurry can be combined for a delicious sauce to last night’s battered fried chicken or a few strips of beef.

6. BROTH CUBES

At home, we prefer to do our own chicken broth with fresh ingredients, stored in the freezer and simply microwaved or heated up for use in our soups and dishes. We find it easy to make and totally without MSG. However, for those who don’t have the luxury of time to make fresh broths, some cubes or chicken powder are a convenient way to create a variety of comforting soups. As for our very own native dishes, a lot of us can’t find time to boil sampalok in our houses for our favorite sinigang. So a pack or two of sinigang mix is useful in every woman’s kitchen.

7. COFFEE or TEA
For most Filipinos, even if we drink them or not, keeping coffee and tea in our kitchen cabinets has become a habit. Having tea at home is good for a lot of things, not just for calming a rumbling stomach. A lot of our guests now prefer tea instead of coffee so we always have different types of tea in our pantry. Chilled teabags can keep eyebags at bay. But then, most of us are all still coffee lovers at heart, so we never run out of our favorite brand of ground coffee for brewing as pick-me-up for ourselves and our guests.

8. BISCUITS, CRACKERS and BREAD
Surprisingly, none of those who responded to my little survey listed chips as a pantry must-have. I would like to take that as a good sign of healthy eating. But still, a few biscuits, crackers and bread are good to keep in your pantry as they quell hunger pangs in an instant. Just remember to choose crackers and biscuits that have less sugar and salt. For breads, whole grain is better than white.

9. CREAM
Rich, thick, heavy cream has always been a delight to have at home for creamy soups and dishes as well as for making desserts and of course, the walang-kamatayang Christmas fruit salad. A pack of cream is, therefore, one of the things you need to have in your pantry. But the really good news is, the cream we’ve always known now comes in a reduced fat variety.

10. FLOUR
Flour isn’t just for baking cookies and cakes. The flour in our kitchen counter goes into soups, to act as thickeners instead of milk or cream. It also goes into making fresh lumpia wrappers, light pancakes and crepes. Flour is also a must-have for breaded porkchops and battered chicken and fish. So make sure you always keep a fresh box at home.

Coffee For Spouses

I love coffee. I think I can blame consumerism and the trend of coffee shops (Starbucks anyone) for that. That and my three-year graveyard work stint. Anyhow, I’m hooked. Even if I work from home now, I still need to drink coffee (iced because of the heat these days) before I can work properly. I’ve heard of sad tales of employees needing to take payday advance loans to support their social activities, and that would be plain wrong. I take coffee everywhere (the last two years of working I take them from our free vendo machine!) and I do not need the label in a cup to drink one.

The husband is not a coffee drinker like me, but he indulges me every now and then. Recently I read an interesting article on how coffee can spark mornings, afternoons or evening in a marriage. Find out what the types of coffee mean:

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So what kind of coffee would you like today?

DECAF: Say “I love you” every day to your spouse. This sounds simple,
and it is—but it’s great to hear each day.

HAZELNUT: Take your spouse out on a date. Actually call them and ask them out. Don’t assume. Take care of the babysitting. Dress nicely. Show up at the front door, and head out together. Take your time.

100% COLUMBIAN: Talk. Talk about your day, the kids, work, what- ever. Just talk. Spend time listening to your spouse and sharing your thoughts and ideas along with theirs.

LIGHT ROAST: (Bet you thought this should be up higher on the list, actually this has more caffeine than dark roast). Change up your routine together. Sit at different places around the dinner table. Sleep on the other side of the bed. Small changes can provide big jolts to the system.

ESPRESSO: Keep your eyes open while kissing. Keep your eyes open during sex. Look at each other. See each other. Not just their body, their eyes, their spirit, their soul.

DOUBLE ESPRESSO: Eyes open orgasm. Connect with your eyes at the culmination of the encounter. Stay with each other after sex is over. Breathe together. Talk. Don’t rush to move on to something else.

Coffee is a great addition to a morning, afternoon, or evening.

Spinach and Artichoke Fondue – Cyma

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A few friends posted Greek food a few days ago and I remembered eating this very delicious fondue recipe from Cyma last year. It made me crave again. This is a great appetizer.

I have been controlling my eating lately because I notice I eat more when I am stressed. So whether it’s stress about the kids, work or a possible credit card debt settlement (thankfully that won’t happen!), I eat. So when the negative feelings come, I try to stay focused and ward off negative energy through exercise.

• 5oz. of Beer
• 3oz. chopped cooked spinach
• 3oz. chopped artichoke hearts
• 1 demitasse spoon of minced garlic
• 8oz. shredded cheddar cheese
• 5 turns of cracked black pepper
• 3 cups of cubed bread – french/rye/pumpernickel
• 2 cups of vegetables – coliflower/carrots/celery/broccoli

Cooking Steps:
- First heat the beer on high heat until hot, add spinach, artichoke hearts and minced garlic and stir with a fork.
- Slowly add shredder cheddar. Whip continuously with a fork. Continue to add cheese and whip until your cheese is a "warm honey" consistency.
- Add pepper.
- Stir with a fork until the consistency is uniform.
- Turn the heat down to low, place bread and vegetables in to a basket or platter.
- Skewer bread and vegetables and dip into cheese fondue.
- Serves 2 to 4 people.

Cancer Hospitals Philadelphia

Cancer remains to be one of the highest causes of mortality around the world, this, despite of recent advances in technology to curing most forms of cancer. Early detection is still the best way to have a good prognosis, once cancer is already in the patient’s body. Of course, prevention is always the best thing. Doctors and scientists are still coming up with ways to identify potential carcinogens, but too much of everything, couple with genetics, seem to play a role in getting cancer into the body. Too much sun exposure, too much ingestion of certain chemicals and certain damaging lifestyle habits contribute to having more chances of getting the big C.

 

Cancer Hospitals Philadelphia are geared not only to medical treatment but holistic treatment of a patient. The Cancer Center at Aria Health provides a comprehensive range of high-quality patient-care and support services.  Board-certified surgeons, radiation oncologists, and medical oncologists – as well as certified cancer nurses, social workers, and other healthcare team members – work together to treat both the physical and emotional sides of cancer in a comfortable setting.

Today cancer treatment centers are easily accessible to everyone located in many metropolitan areas. A number of them are affiliated with large university based hospitals, and provide the latest technology available to treat different types of cancers. These types of facilities are also research based and offer several new treatment alternatives to participants in a range of ongoing studies.

Car Choices and Possibilities

Buying a new car is a major purchase with major amounts of money leaving your pocket. That is why scouting for the best car for you and your family takes a lot of time, in addition to scouting around for the best deal you can afford. Here are some cars you might to consider buying:

Looking at the nissan pathfinder photos photos, you will notice that this mid-size sport-utility vehicle that has tended toward more trucklike sensibilities, as opposed to the newer generation of crossover (car-based) utility vehicles that are more passenger-based and comfort-oriented. It competes with the Ford Explorer, Jeep Grand Cherokee, Toyota 4Runner, and most recently the Kia Borrego. It really is for long drives and hard terrain driving, one that can last with the rough roads without doing much damage or strain to the vehicle’s engine.

 

The hyundai sonata is the latest Sonata qualifies as a large car under U.S. EPA guidelines. It is a four-door sedan built by South Korea’s largest automaker. The 2011 Hyundai Sonata is the latest version of this model line. With a bigger cabin, the Sonata now qualifies as a large car; in its class, only the Honda Accord meets the same standard. If you are looking for a regular four-door vehicle with lots of room, this might the perfect vehicle for you.

 

Of course, the toyota prius remains the most fuel-efficient gasoline-fueled (or liquid-fueled) vehicle in the U.S. market and is both the technology flagship for the Toyota brand and an icon for hybrid vehicles in general. It still remains to be strongly recommended in the auto market because of its energy saving and environmental-friendly capabilities.

WSOP Player Spotlight: Phil Ivey

Phil Ivey is the record holder for total tournament winnings as of 2010, but this is just a snapshot of the many accomplishments that he has had over his impressive career. Ivey is seen as the best all around poker player by many in the industry, including a large number of the people who have played directly against him. The reason, they say, is that Ivey isn’t just a one trick horse. He can play online poker or live poker. He can player large table games, tournaments, or head to head. Whatever he does, he’s likely to come out on top.

For Ivey, it started in New Brunswick with telemarketing. He and a group of friends, whom he met through a telemarketing company, began a regular poker game which allowed Ivey to get some practice while he was still too young to gamble. He continued to get experience by taking trips to Atlantic City, but did so before he was 21 years old. His nickname "No Home Jerome" comes from the fake ID that he used to get this valuable experience.

Ivey has some of the most impressive numbers for a WSOP player. In addition to his high all time winnings, he has won seven bracelets. This was all done between 2000 and 2010, and he set or broke various records along the way. In 2000, he began by becoming the only player to beat the famed Amarilo Slim heads up. He won three bracelets in 2002, tying with two other players for the record of most bracelets won in a single year. He has reached the final table in WSOP events on 22 occasions, and passed the money point a full 36 times. He’s famed for his skill at the table and his philanthropy off of it, and continues to make an amazing impression in the poker world each year.